An Interview: Our Perception of Gray Hair and Appearance

Recently, I interviewed my husband, Victor, about his own view of gray hair, personal appearance and maturity. I admit it. His personal viewpoint surprised me.
L.J.: How do you feel about men and women coloring their gray hair?
Victor: Personally, I feel that showing gray hair as you mature is a sign of wisdom and experience. I know this is an old-fashioned viewpoint.  I think that most men and women look natural when they keep the gray and allow themselves to age gracefully. If someone decides to color their gray, I think that they should still leave a touch of gray. However, if you are prematurely gray, then coloring your hair will enhance your youthful appearance.

L.J.: Do you think the majority of Americans would agree with your viewpoint? 

Victor: No. The majority of people believe that gray hair detracts from your appearance, especially for women. Everyone wants to look young for various reasons.

L.J.: Do you think that showing your grays would affect your chances of getting a job with a prospective employer?
 
Victor: Unfortunately, the answer is: Yes. Most companies prefer someone young and vibrant in appearance, no matter what their age.

L.J.: Has Hollywood influenced our view of gray-headedness? If an actor chose not to cover their gray, how would this affect their fan base?

Victor: Hollywood has most definitely influenced us. We want to look like movie stars, no matter what our age. It appears that when an actor shows their gray, opportunities become limited. Very few actors, whether male or female, let their gray hair show. Some fear the reality of losing their fan base. Those that do, usually have vast Hollywood experience, a solid fan base and are very influential. They reach the point where they're okay with having gray hair in Hollywood.

L.J. (conclusion): Like it or not, if we want to appear younger and vibrant, keeping all the gray hair doesn't appear to be an option for most of us. Ultimately, when we look in the mirror, we should be happy with our own reflection.

Since there is a safe healthy natural coloring option available now, there is no reason stay gray and look older.

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Author: L.J. O'Neal, freelance
writer and researcher. L.J. is also a Lustrous Henna® user.

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